feat(server): connection pool, session persistence, blob storage in SqlStore

- Replace Mutex<Connection> with Vec<Mutex<Connection>> pool (default 4)
  with try_lock fast-path and blocking fallback
- Add SessionRecord struct and session CRUD to Store trait (default no-ops)
- Implement session persistence in SqlStore (sessions table, migration 009)
- Add blob upload/download with SHA-256 verified staging assembly
  (blobs + blob_staging tables, migration 010)
- All 35 server tests pass, FileBackedStore unaffected

crates/quicproquo-server/migrations/010_blobs.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS blobs (
+    blob_id BLOB PRIMARY KEY,
+    data BLOB NOT NULL,
+    total_size INTEGER NOT NULL,
+    mime_type TEXT NOT NULL DEFAULT '',
+    uploaded_at INTEGER NOT NULL
+);
+CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS blob_staging (
+    blob_hash BLOB NOT NULL,
+    offset INTEGER NOT NULL,
+    chunk BLOB NOT NULL,
+    total_size INTEGER NOT NULL,
+    mime_type TEXT NOT NULL DEFAULT '',
+    PRIMARY KEY (blob_hash, offset)
+);